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I was ''divorced'' one year ago. It was pretty straight forward. My
partner
and I owned a small desktop publishing business and a trailer. No kids
(obviously!).

We decided to try and be as fair as possible. He got the trailer and
all the rights to it.
He also assumed responsibility to an equity line. I got the business
and now live in a private
rented room. The trailer is worth about $2950 with a loan of about
$1300 and an equity line
debt of about $35.

I am am on the loan for the trailer and he is only on the deed. He has
been trying to assume the loan but hasnt yet because he dont make
enough money. He has a new partner that lives with him and together
they have been making the payments. Hes been asking me to pay a
portion of the equity line which I am not able to do.
He actually wants me to pay him a portion of the equity but want me to
pay it to
him so he can have some monthly money. There was no support awarded
in the ''divorce'' (online court).

My question is...if I make payments of any sort against the equity
line, then do I have the right to ask for monies if and when he
should sell the trailer? We were ''married'' for 7 months and he feels
I
have a responsiblilty to him as well as no compassion. BTW...he filed
for ''divorce'' and set all the terms. He said he wanted me to have
the
business because its really all I know and has been my whiole life. I
agreed to him having the entire trailer and just about everything that
was in it.

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Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia
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On Oct 13, 2:26*pm, Peter Lucas > wrote:
> I was ''divorced'' one year ago. It was pretty straight forward. My
> partner
> and I owned a small desktop publishing business and a trailer. No kids
> (obviously!).
>
> We decided to try and be as fair as possible. He got the trailer and
> all the rights to it.
> He also assumed responsibility to an equity line. I got the business
> and now live in a private
> rented room. The trailer is worth about $2950 with a loan of about
> $1300 and an equity line
> debt of about $35.
>
> I am am on the loan for the trailer and he is only on the deed. He has
> been trying to assume the loan but hasnt yet because he dont make
> enough money. He has a new partner that lives with him and together
> they have been making the payments. Hes been asking me to pay a
> portion of the equity line which I am not able to do.
> He actually wants me to pay him a portion of the equity but want me to
> pay it to
> him so he can have some monthly money. There was no support awarded
> in the ''divorce'' (online court).
>
> My question is...if I make payments of any sort against the equity
> line, then do I have the right to ask for monies if and when he
> should sell the trailer? We were ''married'' for 7 months and he feels
> I
> have a responsiblilty to him as well as no compassion. BTW...he filed
> for ''divorce'' and set all the terms. He said he wanted me to have
> the
> business because its really all I know and has been my whiole life. I
> agreed to him having the entire trailer and just about everything that
> was in it.
>
> --
> Peter Lucas
> Brisbane
> Australia


A $35 equity line...now that's funny even if you are a dim witted
moran.
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I would write the whole thing off and walk away. Eliminate any
strings and attachemnts to everyone involved, tuck my bruised ego away
and let my heart heal and get on with life.

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On Oct 14, 5:09*am, pamjd > wrote:
> I would write the whole thing off and walk away. *Eliminate any
> strings and attachemnts to everyone involved, tuck my bruised ego away
> and let my heart heal and get on with life.


He can't...he's got that $35 equity line to pay off and that'll take
him years!
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