PENMART01 > wrote in message
...
[snip]
> >> As an aside, I wonder why you are so angry with the OP? I
> >> understand where he's coming from, but even if I didn't I
> >> sure wouldn't ridicule him for being frustrated with the
> >> hosts of the parties he's attended.
> >>
> >I don't suffer fools and boors; he qualifies as both. He is
> >someone thatgoes to parties, scarfs down everything in sight,
> >offers a minimal item (See's candies) and then trashes the
> >host/hostess to anyone outside the party. "Oh I went to
> >their party... It sucked man..."
> >
> >> Maybe you aren't aware that in some circles it is nigh unto
> >> mandatory to make an appearance at many holiday parties
> >> hosted by clients, bosses, business peers, etc and a refusal
> >> would be rude, and possible career suicide.
> >
> >I've been to many of those shin-digs. You show up, let the boss,
> >the boss' boss, and two levels higher see you. And then you leave.
> >In the meantime, you mingle. Billy-Joe-Jim-Bob wasn't at this
> >type of formal party; he was at an acquaintance's apartment and
> >is trashing the lack of anything remotely signifying his demanding
> >tastes. In those cases, the "I have a root canal" excuse is applicable.
> >
> >> I too wonder why people "have" parties when they so
> >> obviously don't give a crap enough to provide even the
> >> most basic of hospitality. Perhaps they don't want to
> >> have them in the first place, but do because it's required
> >> of their position at work. Holiday parties seem to bring
> >> out the worst in both hosts and guests.
> >
> >You said it yourself in your previous post; some people are still
> >doing the "dorm thing" and providing the space is their only
> >requirement. Sometimes they'll (or a guest that has a little more
> >sense) raid the meager pantry to help with alcohol absorption.
> ><shrug> It's not a party /I/ like attending but I've seen plenty
> >of them.
> >
> >No. More likely, Billy-Joe-Jim-Bob is a whining parasite that is
> >one of those albatross that /have/ to be invited.
> >
> Your diatribe sounds like your assumptions are based solely on
> recounting and rationalizing your own behaviour.

"Rationalizing" my own behavior? Heh. Yeah. That's it. I need something like
you (human dogshit) to point that out.

> Unfortunately the OP has made made legitimate points.

There were no valid point beyond his being a boor of extraordinary
proporations and cheap to boot. An informal party is just that; informal and
(usually) low-key. It's akin to a beer-bash; enter at your own peril.

> It's rude beyond reproach to waste people's time and efforts
> by their feeble attempt at playing host/ess beyond their
> capabilities.

Not everyone throws out beans and pastas as filler for their guests like
you've stated repeatedly.

> it's embarassing to endure any affair, especially a dinner, where
> the host/ess has provided the proverbial one meatball and no
> spaghetti. When I find myself in the situation where everything
> is metted out so exactly I instantly develop an emergency
> requiring my departure... better to cut my losses early.

And their's...

> Naturally I never again accept an invite from those clods, nor
> do I ever invite them.

A win-win if ever there was a case.

The Ranger

<cuhulain__98> scribbles:

<all attributions snipped by above smarmy asshole>

>> >> As an aside, I wonder why you are so angry with the OP? I
>> >> understand where he's coming from, but even if I didn't I
>> >> sure wouldn't ridicule him for being frustrated with the
>> >> hosts of the parties he's attended.
>> >>
>> >I don't suffer fools and boors; he qualifies as both. He is
>> >someone thatgoes to parties, scarfs down everything in sight,
>> >offers a minimal item (See's candies) and then trashes the
>> >host/hostess to anyone outside the party. "Oh I went to
>> >their party... It sucked man..."
>> >
>> >> Maybe you aren't aware that in some circles it is nigh unto
>> >> mandatory to make an appearance at many holiday parties
>> >> hosted by clients, bosses, business peers, etc and a refusal
>> >> would be rude, and possible career suicide.
>> >
>> >I've been to many of those shin-digs. You show up, let the boss,
>> >the boss' boss, and two levels higher see you. And then you leave.
>> >In the meantime, you mingle. Billy-Joe-Jim-Bob wasn't at this
>> >type of formal party; he was at an acquaintance's apartment and
>> >is trashing the lack of anything remotely signifying his demanding
>> >tastes. In those cases, the "I have a root canal" excuse is applicable.
>> >
>> >> I too wonder why people "have" parties when they so
>> >> obviously don't give a crap enough to provide even the
>> >> most basic of hospitality. Perhaps they don't want to
>> >> have them in the first place, but do because it's required
>> >> of their position at work. Holiday parties seem to bring
>> >> out the worst in both hosts and guests.
>> >
>> >You said it yourself in your previous post; some people are still
>> >doing the "dorm thing" and providing the space is their only
>> >requirement. Sometimes they'll (or a guest that has a little more
>> >sense) raid the meager pantry to help with alcohol absorption.
>> ><shrug> It's not a party /I/ like attending but I've seen plenty
>> >of them.
>> >
>> >No. More likely, Billy-Joe-Jim-Bob is a whining parasite that is
>> >one of those albatross that /have/ to be invited.
>> >
>> Your diatribe sounds like your assumptions are based solely on
>> recounting and rationalizing your own behaviour.
>
>"Rationalizing" my own behavior?

YES! Whaddayoose, a friggin' echo, or is 'rationalizing' a woid beyond your
limited comprehension. Idiot.

M-W

rationalize

: to attribute (one's actions) to rational and creditable motives without
analysis of true and especially unconscious motives
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****face Pukebrain > showed his single-dimension response
[as usual] through message
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[creative snipping returned]
> >"Rationalizing" my own behavior?

Let's add back in the relavent portion of my quote:
" [..] I need something like you (human dogshit) to point that out.

> YES! [snip remaining plagiarism]

One of these days you're going to come up with something original and shock
the hell out of everyone. Until that time, I pity you in the same way I
would any less-fortunate being.

The Ranger

"The STRanger" grunts:
>
>I pity you in the same way I would any less-fortunate being.

Too bad yer momma was a coat hanger coward.


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PENMART01 > wrote in message
...
> Too bad yer momma was a coat hanger coward.

Yours obviously wasn't; just wasn't successful.

The Ranger

>That's it. I need something like
>you (human dogshit) to point that out.

############
Ya know you're just a asshole
#############
>There were no valid point beyond his being a boor of extraordinary
>proporations and cheap to boot. An informal party is just that; informal and
>(usually) low-key

##############
Who at anytime said this was an informal party.This was a party in Toluca Lake
ca. about 5 blocks from Bob Hopes house. Not in a trailer park in Alabama. You
make many assumptions that are not true and like I said before I thionk you saw
yourself in my post and became defensive. By the way See's a very good
chocolates, not like the Whitmans you probably scarf. BG

>Who at anytime said this was an informal party.This was a party in Toluca
>Lake
>ca. about 5 blocks from Bob Hopes house. Not in a trailer park in Alabama.

Your the one who complained about how small the apartment was ... make up your
mind
~Kat


"I think I would like to call myself 'the girl who wanted to be God'. Yet if I
were not in this body, where would I be--perhaps I am destined to be classified
and qualified. But, oh, I cry out aginst it." --Sylvia Plath

>Your the one who complained about how small the apartment was ... make up
>your
>mind

############
That was just ONE of several pet peaves experienced at MANY different badly put
together parties.At BOTH homes and Condos, and Apartments. BG

oads (BillKirch) writes:

>>Your the one who complained about how small the apartment was ... make up
>>your
>>mind
>
>############
>That was just ONE of several pet peaves experienced at MANY different badly
>put together parties.At BOTH homes and Condos, and Apartments. BG


They're just jealous because they never get invited anywhere. Hey, I once
lived in Hollywood too, a very long time ago, on Formosa Street.


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PEEMART01 > spewed in message
...
[snip BJJB's whining]
> They're just jealous because they never get invited anywhere.

Look in your mirror, stepmom; that's your reflection you're seeing, not
anyone else's...

The Ranger

On 22 Dec 2003 20:59:20 GMT, oads
(BillKirch) wrote:


> ##############
> Who at anytime said this was an informal party.This was a party in Toluca Lake
> ca. about 5 blocks from Bob Hopes house. Not in a trailer park in Alabama. You
> make many assumptions that are not true and like I said before I thionk you saw
> yourself in my post and became defensive.

Like a poster said a while back, "Sounds like you need a new
set of friends"... eliminate the snide remark made at the
end. <s>



Practice safe eating - always use condiments

BillKirch > whined in message
...
> >That's it. I need something like you (human dogshit) to
> >point that out.
> >
> Ya know you're just a asshole

With jackasses like you (and ****face ****mart), with sadistic pleasure.

> >There were no valid point beyond his being a boor of
> >extraordinary proporations and cheap to boot. An informal
> >party is just that; informal and (usually) low-key
> >
> Who at anytime said this was an informal party.This was a party in
> Toluca Lake ca. about 5 blocks from Bob Hopes house.

Right... Sure, Billy-Joe-Jim-Bob. Sure.

> You make many assumptions [snip remaining drivel]

Okay, BJJB; whatever y'all wanna buhleev.

You're still a boor and cheapskate. Enjoy ****mart's company; ya make a cute
couple.

The Ranger
--
Same ol', same ol'. The lack of imagination escaping with regularity from
your slimy puddle of cyberspace is palpable. Ooze away before someone trains
a magnifying glass over you and the hiss of your evaporation is like some
cheap scifi fx.