To answer your second question (which is the easiest), a butt is a
great cut that can be used for pulled pork. It comes in at less than 5
pounds.

Your first question is somewhat more difficult, Firstly, what does your
wife look like (just kidding),, I think you have to look inward my
child, look deep inside and see if you are perhaps the cause of this
rift between you and your loved one, your precise and dear wife.

Life is learning how to compromise. We can't always get what we want,
but perhaps we can get what we need if we try.

I say to you my bretheren that perhaps you truly are appling too much
smoke.

Yes, yes, easy there big guy, (as you pull back from the monitor in
horror) as you read these words.

As in love, you'll find that a little (smoke) can go a long way. I too
found a limit to quantity of smoke and I know that you also brother can
see the same truth too!....

Ok, Ok, I'll cut the crap, show your wife that you love her, cut back
on the smoke! You can over do the smoke. Especially with a non-vented
water/bullet smoker.

Regards, Peace, Love and Eternal Harmony To All, Even CL and Kevin!
Yes, even those two wiley rascals need love! I LOVE you CL and Kevin,
but, but, can't we all just get along????

Piedmont