Dave Smith wrote:

> > It takes seconds to grate/shred cheese. I can't understand why she
> > doesn't want to do it...afterall, she's in the kitchen making dinner
> > anyway.

> I hope you will understand if I don't jump to the defense of someone who
> can't take a few seconds to grate some cheese.

Maybe Steve will tell us what the problem really is. It's clearly
something more profound than cheese.