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Default Miss Manners on serving "informal" dinners to guests

On Wed, 7 Jul 2010 09:17:07 +0200, "Giusi" > wrote:

> My friend just told me that the mother of the bride in her son's upcoming
> wedding has told her where to host the rehearsal dinner because the idea
> that groom and mom came up with wasn't fancy enough to impress her
> relatives. Groom is self-made millionaire at an incredibly young age.
> Apparently that makes bride's family feel like everything must cost
> millions.


That MIL-to-be needs to be reigned in! Sounds like the rehearsal
dinner is turning into a pre-wedding banquet. We're parents of the
groom in August, so I know what your friend is going through. If her
son approved of the venue, it's fine. He knows what their friends
like... and nobody cares what the bride's mother thinks is
appropriate. She should be worrying about the wedding reception
details and butt out of the rehearsal dinner planning. I don't think
my son's soon to be MIL knows or cares where we've picked for the
rehearsal dinner. She is focused on the wedding and reception
details.

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