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"rosie" > wrote in message
...
> On Wednesday, September 26, 2018 at 8:09:11 AM UTC-5, John Kuthe wrote:
>> On Wednesday, September 26, 2018 at 3:12:48 AM UTC-5, Ophelia wrote:
>> ...
>> > ==
>> >
>> > Rosie, I don't see the point in constantly bullying. I achieves
>> > nothing,
>> > unless of course bullies get a kick out of it.
>> >
>> > Please just be yourself and make up your own mind.
>> >
>> > He just seems to talk about his dreams odd though they may be, I think
>> > he is
>> > just lonely.
>>
>> Yes I AM quite lonely, and few to none seem to really care. :-(
>>
>> But I have ALWAYS been lonely. All my life really. And other people seem
>> to take sadistic glee in that! :-( Because People SUCK! :-( Like they are
>> NOT lonely?
>>
>> John Kuthe...
>
> Since I really do not know all that went on with this situation, I will
> not Discuss it any more.
>
> But i will say, I believe everyone is lonely , at least sometimes in their
> lives and I will agree it is no fun. .

=====

I honestly can't ever remember being lonely, fortunately.

Cheri

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On 9/26/2018 12:15 PM, Cheri wrote:
> "rosie" > wrote in message
> ...
>> On Wednesday, September 26, 2018 at 8:09:11 AM UTC-5, John Kuthe wrote:
>>> On Wednesday, September 26, 2018 at 3:12:48 AM UTC-5, Ophelia wrote:
>>> ...
>>> > ==
>>> >
>>> > Rosie, I don't see the point in constantly bullying.* I achieves >
>>> nothing,
>>> > unless of course bullies get a kick out of it.
>>> >
>>> > Please just be yourself and make up your own mind.
>>> >
>>> > He just seems to talk about his dreams odd though they may be, I
>>> think > he is
>>> > just lonely.
>>>
>>> Yes I AM quite lonely, and few to none seem to really care. :-(
>>>
>>> But I have ALWAYS been lonely. All my life really. And other people
>>> seem to take sadistic glee in that! :-( Because People SUCK! :-( Like
>>> they are NOT lonely?
>>>
>>> John Kuthe...
>>
>> Since I really do not know all that went on with this situation, I
>> will not Discuss it any more.
>>
>> But i will say, I believe everyone is lonely , at least sometimes in
>> their lives and I will agree it is no* fun. .
>
> =====
>
> I honestly can't ever remember being lonely, fortunately.
>
> Cheri

I don't feel lonely, and I live alone.

Jill

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Cheri wrote:
>
> I honestly can't ever remember being lonely, fortunately.

Many people go nuts having to spend even one night alone. Not me.
I've always enjoyed my own company and never feel lonely. It's
rare that I let someone into my life as a close friend. I've
never liked doing things with "the gang." Just alone or one close
mate for me.

Ferret or two is the exception. The one creature that's always
welcome here.

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"jmcquown" > wrote in message
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> On 9/26/2018 12:15 PM, Cheri wrote:
>> "rosie" > wrote in message
>> ...
>>> On Wednesday, September 26, 2018 at 8:09:11 AM UTC-5, John Kuthe wrote:
>>>> On Wednesday, September 26, 2018 at 3:12:48 AM UTC-5, Ophelia wrote:
>>>> ...
>>>> > ==
>>>> >
>>>> > Rosie, I don't see the point in constantly bullying. I achieves >
>>>> nothing,
>>>> > unless of course bullies get a kick out of it.
>>>> >
>>>> > Please just be yourself and make up your own mind.
>>>> >
>>>> > He just seems to talk about his dreams odd though they may be, I
>>>> think > he is
>>>> > just lonely.
>>>>
>>>> Yes I AM quite lonely, and few to none seem to really care. :-(
>>>>
>>>> But I have ALWAYS been lonely. All my life really. And other people
>>>> seem to take sadistic glee in that! :-( Because People SUCK! :-( Like
>>>> they are NOT lonely?
>>>>
>>>> John Kuthe...
>>>
>>> Since I really do not know all that went on with this situation, I will
>>> not Discuss it any more.
>>>
>>> But i will say, I believe everyone is lonely , at least sometimes in
>>> their lives and I will agree it is no fun. .
>>
>> =====
>>
>> I honestly can't ever remember being lonely, fortunately.
>>
>> Cheri
>
> I don't feel lonely, and I live alone.
>
> Jill


I came from a big family, married out of high school, worked outside the
home, raised kids, then with grandkids and dh retired etc., I do treasure
the alone time too, so no loneliness ever. :)

Cheri

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"Gary" > wrote in message ...
> Cheri wrote:
>>
>> I honestly can't ever remember being lonely, fortunately.
>
> Many people go nuts having to spend even one night alone. Not me.
> I've always enjoyed my own company and never feel lonely. It's
> rare that I let someone into my life as a close friend. I've
> never liked doing things with "the gang." Just alone or one close
> mate for me.
>
> Ferret or two is the exception. The one creature that's always
> welcome here.


Yes, sort of the same here (minus ferrets) We have a few close friends from
childhood that we do things with like coffee at McDonald's :-) never gangs
of people, and many acquaintances that we don't see terribly often but do
enjoy when we see them, so it works out great for us.

Cheri

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On Wed, 26 Sep 2018 11:01:33 -0700, "Cheri" >
wrote:

>"Gary" > wrote in message ...
>> Cheri wrote:
>>>
>>> I honestly can't ever remember being lonely, fortunately.
>>
>> Many people go nuts having to spend even one night alone. Not me.
>> I've always enjoyed my own company and never feel lonely. It's
>> rare that I let someone into my life as a close friend. I've
>> never liked doing things with "the gang." Just alone or one close
>> mate for me.
>>
>> Ferret or two is the exception. The one creature that's always
>> welcome here.
>
>
>Yes, sort of the same here (minus ferrets) We have a few close friends from
>childhood that we do things with like coffee at McDonald's :-)

Party animal alert!

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"Brice" > wrote in message
...
> On Wed, 26 Sep 2018 11:01:33 -0700, "Cheri" >

>>Yes, sort of the same here (minus ferrets) We have a few close friends
>>from
>>childhood that we do things with like coffee at McDonald's :-)
>
> Party animal alert!


I don't go to McDonald's for coffee, and...we did enough heavy partying when
we were young to last us. LOL

Cheri

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On 2018-09-26 1:22 PM, Gary wrote:
> Cheri wrote:
>>
>> I honestly can't ever remember being lonely, fortunately.
>
> Many people go nuts having to spend even one night alone. Not me.
> I've always enjoyed my own company and never feel lonely. It's
> rare that I let someone into my life as a close friend. I've
> never liked doing things with "the gang." Just alone or one close
> mate for me.


I am quite happy spending time on my own. I have a good friend who likes
going out for motorcycle rides with me. He never goes out on my own. I
love going out on the bike on my own. Frankly, most times I would rather
be out on my own. I also enjoy being on when my wife goes away for a
few days to visit her sister or to attend conferences.

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On Wed, 26 Sep 2018 10:38:39 -0700, "Cheri" >
wrote:

>"jmcquown" > wrote in message
...
>> On 9/26/2018 12:15 PM, Cheri wrote:
>>> "rosie" > wrote in message
>>> ...
>>>> On Wednesday, September 26, 2018 at 8:09:11 AM UTC-5, John Kuthe wrote:
>>>>> On Wednesday, September 26, 2018 at 3:12:48 AM UTC-5, Ophelia wrote:
>>>>> ...
>>>>> > ==
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Rosie, I don't see the point in constantly bullying. I achieves >
>>>>> nothing,
>>>>> > unless of course bullies get a kick out of it.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Please just be yourself and make up your own mind.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > He just seems to talk about his dreams odd though they may be, I
>>>>> think > he is
>>>>> > just lonely.
>>>>>
>>>>> Yes I AM quite lonely, and few to none seem to really care. :-(
>>>>>
>>>>> But I have ALWAYS been lonely. All my life really. And other people
>>>>> seem to take sadistic glee in that! :-( Because People SUCK! :-( Like
>>>>> they are NOT lonely?
>>>>>
>>>>> John Kuthe...
>>>>
>>>> Since I really do not know all that went on with this situation, I will
>>>> not Discuss it any more.
>>>>
>>>> But i will say, I believe everyone is lonely , at least sometimes in
>>>> their lives and I will agree it is no fun. .
>>>
>>> =====
>>>
>>> I honestly can't ever remember being lonely, fortunately.
>>>
>>> Cheri
>>
>> I don't feel lonely, and I live alone.
>>
>> Jill
>
>
>I came from a big family, married out of high school, worked outside the
>home, raised kids, then with grandkids and dh retired etc., I do treasure
>the alone time too, so no loneliness ever. :)
>
>Cheri

There are times when I suffer a pang and wish David were here, even 23
years later :(

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On 9/26/2018 8:42 PM, Wayne Boatwright wrote:
> On Wed 26 Sep 2018 02:08:18p, Dave Smith told us...
>
>> On 2018-09-26 1:22 PM, Gary wrote:
>>> Cheri wrote:
>>>>
>>>> I honestly can't ever remember being lonely, fortunately.
>>>
>>> Many people go nuts having to spend even one night alone. Not me.
>>> I've always enjoyed my own company and never feel lonely. It's
>>> rare that I let someone into my life as a close friend. I've
>>> never liked doing things with "the gang." Just alone or one close
>>> mate for me.
>>
>>
>> I am quite happy spending time on my own. I have a good friend who
>> likes going out for motorcycle rides with me. He never goes out on
>> my own. I love going out on the bike on my own. Frankly, most
>> times I would rather be out on my own. I also enjoy being on when
>> my wife goes away for a few days to visit her sister or to attend
>> conferences.
>>
>>
>
> David and I enjoy each other's company and we rarely go out
> individually by ourselves. We have two very close ocuples that we
> socialize with, but it isn't frequent and is usually with only one
> coule at a time. There are a total of about 14 friends that form an
> informal group. Initially we used to socialize with the group but
> soon grew tired of the number of people together.
>

I can count the parties we've attended on one hand. Like you, we'd
rather spend an evening or an afternoon with another couple. Over the
years, we don't have a lot of friends but the ones we have go back
decades.

My wife and I spend a lot of time together, but we also have some alone
time. She takes a nap in the afternoon and that is when I go out to the
store or other errands. I take the house phone off the hook but she has
a cell phone should she need me.