For those who have done this, or have had guests who do this, I am
curious to know how it sits with you.

For cooks who slave the entire day (me), I really don't appreciate a
guest who has made two prior stops for Thanksgiving dinner prior to
having dinner with me. A guest who isn't very hungry is really
complimentary.

I understand the blended families, or couples who want to visit both
sides of the family, or this and that, but shouldn't one stop be the
place where you break some real bread?

Karen