On Sun, 30 Jul 2006 14:32:14 -0500, "jmcquown"
> wrote:

>Goomba38 wrote:
>> jmcquown wrote:
>>
>>> You should meet my father... then you'd realize a nursing home is
>>> not an option he'd take to nicely. His older sister, my aunt Win,
>>> and her husband are happy to live in an assisted living faciltiy.
>>> There aren't exactly lots of nursing homes in the Beaufort area.
>>> I'm not sure she would have any idea how do do that.
>>
>> So why don't you move home and help take care of him? And provide a
>> little respite for your mother? You've got time on your hands.
>
>I have offered! I'm told I'm not wanted. Dad specifically said he doesn't
>want me to move there. So what am I supposed to do???
>
>Jill
>

What does you mother say? Does she have no input into the situation?
Or do you have a man with dementia calling the shots?

Just to let you know that I do understand, my mother died from
Alzheimer. I made the decisions even tho she did not like them. There
is nothing like driving 200 miles with you mother crying all the way.
(Moving her to where we lived.)
--
Susan N.

"Moral indignation is in most cases two percent moral,
48 percent indignation, and 50 percent envy."
Vittorio De Sica, Italian movie director (1901-1974