"William" > wrote in message ...
>
> "pearl" > wrote in message
> ...
> > "William" > wrote in message
> > ...
> >>
> >> "chico chupacabra" > wrote in message
> >> ...
> >> > Billy Blight continued his pathetic defense of a known airhead:
> >> >
> >> >>>>>>>>> He was a lying criminal
> >> >>>>>>>> Then how can you believe him
> >> >>
> >> >> cut
> >> >>
> >> >> I don't believe you now you've admitted that your sources of information come
> >> >> from
> >> >> lying criminals.
> >> >
> >> > What did he have to gain by saying that she participated in his culture?
> >>
> >> The same as you - the hope that his lies would discredit her - revenge.
> >
> > He needed an excuse for the break up - so of course shifted the blame onto me.
> >
> Naturally. I've blamed my ex girlfriends for our break ups but not to the extent he
> went to.

Seems that the appearance of being happily married and settled meant a lot to him-
he relied on it to lend some credibility to his ranting. Couldn't lose face after that.

> >> > Moreover, what bond would he have had with her if she didn't identify in some
> >> > way
> >> > with his skinhead worldview?
> >>
> >> I think the real question here is, what bond would she have had with him if he
> >> didn't
> >> identify in some way with her vegan worldview? I think he was a vegan trying to
> >> dispel the myth that all vegans are whimps.
> >
> > He wasn't a vegan. He was near-vegan when here, but after he'd left I found out
> > that he'd been scoffing hamburgers in town... Our common ground was mainly
> > religious belief. He was not violent or abusive toward me, but it eventually
> > became
> > apparent that our differences outweighed agreement, and, he was a really lazy sod.
> > The end came when I discovered that he had been trawling for girls at porn sites.
> >
> Really sorry to hear that Pearl. Glad to hear you had the bottle to dump him though.
> A lot don't and find they've wasted their lives on wasters like your ex.

It wasn't a good time, I'll say that, and not just because of that.. At the end of the
day it was really just as well, as I had to go to England quite regularly and needed
someone here to look after the place whilst I was gone. A reason for everything..