Lisa Ann wrote:

> I dread having to deal with my brother when my Mom passes...I've asked her
> to specify *everything* in her will, and hopefully she'll do it...but it's
> gonna be ugly, regardless.
>
> Lisa Ann


Perhaps your mom could give you and your brother a few things that
either of you want now so he won't be squabbling with you when that
dreaded time comes. Another possibility is she have you both over and
make it plain who gets what and it's in the will.

Just a thought.............