Debbie wrote:

> I'd not use peanut butter unless I was sure there were no nut allergies.
> Even if you did your best to keep them separate, there is no guarantee
that
> some wouldn't come into contact with something the allergic child ate. I
> think


Don't be silly, peanut "allergies" are mostly an urban myth.

If someone is allergic to something being served, then it's incumbent upon
*them* to make adjustments (including not attending the event), not the host
of the event.

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Best
Greg