BillKirch wrote:
>
> I'm tired of going to peoples homes for a party and seeing those stupid sausage
> weenies and tiny little cereal bowls of Guacamole enough for 4 people at a
> party for 30, in an apartment that can hold 18.

It is never wise to go to a party or dinner for that matter on an empty
stomach if you
don't know the host too well. You may not like or be able to eat the
food or it
may be slow or late in coming.

> The bad taste people have is
> unbelievable.

It is not bad taste but different taste. Once went to a BBQ and the
only thing on the
grill was salmon. The host insisted I try some. After way, way, way
too many beers, I was
able to eat some and say it was good. I hate salmon and all other fish
because of taste,
texture and smell.



> One bottle of wine.

Most parties are BYOB or BYOB assisted parties.

> No napkins,or ice,

The only thing worse than no ice is stale ice. I had this buddy that
knew I loved ice but
when I went to his place I would aways say no ice. (Whenever I could I
brought ice to help out.)
His ice was always stale and smelled and tasted like a fridge.

> cheap paper plates that bend and cups that are either too big or too
> small..cheap

If there was only one bottle of wine and little else in food for 30
people none of the plates should be bending as there would be nothing on
them...and the cups can neither be too small or too large if there is no
wine!



> Dip they bought at the store.

The advantage to store bought dip is that it wasn't likely made with
unwashed hands and if you all get sick
you can sue the manufacturer as opposed to the host who probably has
little or no money of the kind lawyers are looking for.


> The list is unending. Here's a tip. DON'T throw a party if you can't
> afford to throw a party. And if you do, get MORE than enough for everyone. Or
> better yet ....cater it. Merry Xmas

If you are going to thow a party, know your guests' likes and dislikes
or ask. Be clear
about whether it is a BBQ type or a **** up type party or both. BYOF
(food) or BYOB should be very clear.
Regardless about how much food or booze there is at a party, aren't
parties about socializing and food and drink often play a lesser role?