"Derek" > wrote in message ...
> On Mon, 13 Dec 2004 01:04:42 GMT, Alex Chaihorsky wrote:
>
> > "Tea" > wrote in message
> > ...
> >>
> >
> >>
> >> HAH! I say- HAH!
> >>
> >> If you want a woman with a face like an angel and a nature that is
> >> passionate and roiling, African-Americans are the best. We are
> >> dependable,
> >> loving and kind, and we can usually cook up a storm. The men who love
us
> >> may gain a few extra pounds, but they'll be well fed and happy. Of
course,
> >> I
> >> wouldn't advise annoying us- objects have been known to move at light
> >> speed
> >> on occasion. Also, titanium razor blades have been known to be dull
next
> >> to
> >> our tongues- there's no need for circumcision before meeting us,
because
> >> there's a good chance you'll lose some of your foreskin over time
anyway.
> >> Some of it will get worn away from all the hard use anyhow, which will
> >> also
> >> help you wear off the pounds from our cooking.
> >>>
> >
> > Majority of us, white guys unfortunately never had a chance to
experience a
> > black lady companionship in normal circumstances, because even when it
> > happens, the scene is so overloaded with cultural, racial and behavioral
> > obstacles that minefield walking on Kosovo-Serbian border feels safer.
> > In addition to that, the black community does not look favorably on this
and
> > it never tries to hide that. Whites honestly want to look like they are
all
> > for it, but the negativity shines through, however the effort to hide it
> > (both from themselves and from the couple). Knowing that, TV networks
never
> > show anything that would be seen as a mixed-race romancing, and there is
> > more realty in these "family" shows that in all "reality" shows taken
> > together. What a hypocrisy.
> >
> > Sashay.
>
> My family surname is Welsh in origin and can literally be translated
> as "pasty white honky." And yet my uncle's third wife is black - and a
> wonderful lady, to boot.
>
> Unfortunately, while the Washington, DC, area has been good to them,
> they're approaching retirement age. And all the locations they've
> seriously considered for their post-employment life have proven to be
> less than welcoming to a multi-racial couple.
>
> Truth be told, my uncle's a better man because of my aunt. Period.
> It's a shame that people get their knickers in a knot over something
> that is really so inconsequential.
>
> --
> Derek
>
> Sometimes the end doesn't justify the jeans.

The BF and I have already had 'the talk'. He's planning on moving up here
next year because the opportunities are better and because there's still a
Klan group outside of his town in PA. Black people can be annoying, but
they don't burn down your house for dating non-black guys. The idea of
moving to an area where there are no other educated black people, where all
the gays have low-paying jobs and are seen as pariahs, and where the John
Birch Society is still big doesn't seem like a good idea to me.

Have your aunt and uncle looked at Columbia, Maryland? They have delightful
houses there and it's a planned community- it was founded to be ethnically
diverse. Miami can be good, although the old people there are still living
in the past. And anywhere near NYC you can find places where you don't have
to shovel snow. There 's also the US Virgin Islands- money goes further and
they can live in peace. My mother is living in Owings Mills, Maryland, but
she finds it a bit dull after having lived in NYC.