jmcquown wrote:

> On 3/10/2021 12:45 PM, Cindy Hamilton wrote:
> > On Wednesday, March 10, 2021 at 11:21:29 AM UTC-5, dsi1 wrote:
> > > On Wednesday, March 10, 2021 at 6:14:05 AM UTC-10, Cindy Hamilton
> > > wrote:
> > > > On Wednesday, March 10, 2021 at 11:00:32 AM UTC-5, dsi1 wrote:
> > > > > On Wednesday, March 10, 2021 at 1:42:37 AM UTC-10, Cindy
> > > > > Hamilton wrote:
> > > > > > On Wednesday, March 10, 2021 at 5:51:10 AM UTC-5, dsi1
> > > > > > wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > > Yesterday my wife and I went to a doughnut shop. What a
> > > > > > > pleasure it is to be able to eat a doughnut and drink
> > > > > > > coffee alone with your wife. That doesn't happen often
> > > > > > > enough. https://photos.app.goo.gl/kd91HnaVMHriZvkdA
> > > > > > If it doesn't happen often enough, that's because you don't
> > > > > > make it happen.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Cindy Hamilton
> > > > > People like you always say stuff like that to people like me.
> > > > People like me? People who take action to get the things that
> > > > they want rather than sitting around whinging about it?
> > > >
> > > > Cindy Hamilton
> > > People without kids will always has the most uninformed, naive,
> > > advice for people with kids. Haven't you figured that out by now?
> >
> > Your kids are grown, aren't they? In any event, if you truly
> > valued time alone with your wife, you would find a way to do so.
> >
> > Cindy Hamilton
> >
> Maybe she's thrilled to be taken to a doughnut shop. <shrug>
>
> Jill

Um, what's wrong with a normal activity?

I take my husband sometimes to Denny's. Tain't fancy but he really
likes their clubhouse sandwiches. I also take him to fancy places
sometimes but any place that makes you feel a bit 'off' if in bluejeans
and sneakers, makes him a little edgy feeling.

dsi1 and his wife may enjoy a good noodle shop more than a place with
fine wines and real crystal glasses. Nothing wrong with that.