"songbird" wrote in message ...

Ophelia wrote:
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> I would be like you if ever I lost my lovely husband) In face, no one
> else could replace him!

i feel lucky and happy with what i went through and how i did
things. i never cheated on anyone and i never got anyone
pregnant. when my last relationship broke up i took a few years
to just get back to normal and then i figured out that i was
happier and didn't want the drama of dating. i did try to find
someone else, but people wanted to talk, but not to do things or
to go on actual dates. i wanted to get out and do some things
since most of my time i am here at home so to have a buddy to
go find some new places to explore and to eat at and such was
what i was hoping for. but it was just a bit too much drama for
me so that was it and i've not really looked at all since then.

the holidays are a tough time for some relationships, if you've
been going out for a few years then it becomes expected you will
propose before or during the holidays. ugh! and of course
getting dumpt after the holidays is common too. i know a few
people that got dumped this season.


songbird

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I am sorry to hear that, but at least you are happy and really, that is
all that matters .. to me anyway))