On Monday, May 25, 2020 at 9:14:00 AM UTC-10, Bruce wrote:
> On Mon, 25 May 2020 11:50:09 -0700 (PDT), dsi1
> > wrote:
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> >On Sunday, May 24, 2020 at 7:07:49 AM UTC-10, Boron Elgar wrote:
> >> On Sun, 24 May 2020 09:50:22 -0700 (PDT), dsi1
> >> > wrote:
> >>
> >> >You ought to know what you're talking about. Me, I'm just guessing so I'm not saying a thing.
> >>
> >> How did you do when your kids were little?
> >
> >My experience was probably like a lot of new dads - we found we could do things that we thought we wouldn't be able to. It helped that my wife and I have the exact same ideas on how to raise our kids. That's quite remarkable because our backgrounds were completely different. She was raised in a dysfunctional, abusive, family and I had kind of a sheltered upbringing. I thought it was fine but my dad expressed some regret my protected existence. OTOH, I pretty much turned out like my dad. That's a good thing.
> >
> >My son, however, is a most remarkable dad. I sometimes wonder how I could have raised such a being.
>
> It's not surprising that such a wonderful man on such a wonderful
> island has such a wonderful father and such a wonderful son. I think
> that's just wonderful! You must be Asians to be so wonderful!

It is not my problem/concern/kuleana if you have no kids. I shall not give you the satisfaction of being the scapegoat for your resentment in this matter, sir!