On Sun, 9 Dec 2018 09:38:38 -0500, jmcquown >
wrote:

>On 12/9/2018 8:30 AM, wrote:
>> He tries to make it sound as if I want them to be ingratiating which
>> is far from true. At my local pub which is my lunchtime favourite
>> because of the excellent fish and chips and also the chowder, I pretty
>> much know all the girls now, it's not about me but them, how their
>> studies are going, whether they have exams coming in the next few
>> weeks etc. I see nothing wrong with friendliness and a big smile.
>
>Bruce seems to think you have a say in how much an employer pays their
>wait staff!
>
>Jill

He has three places around town and the girls at the one near here all
like him and say he is good and fair. I feel that is reflected in
their attitudes.