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On 12/8/2018 9:02 PM, Dave Smith wrote:
> On 2018-12-08 8:47 p.m., wrote:
>> On Sat, 8 Dec 2018 18:23:21 -0500, Dave Smith

>
>>> There may not be a guarantee that they server would get, but you want to
>>> be able to hold the purse strings like you would the strings of a puppet
>>> to make sure they dance to your tune to get their tip.Â* You want to be
>>> able to withhold the tip and deny them a good wage if your server gets
>>> stuck with a table of 15 that leads to the kitchen and wait staff having
>>> to deal with their orders.
>>>

>> Er no.Â*Â* I go for a meal and if the server is pleasant, does not
>> continually hover over me, but smiles and is just - nice - then I
>> leave a nice tip.Â* If they are hung over, or sharp, or crash the
>> plates down in front of me,Â* then I do not leave any tip.
>>

>
> Knowing that they are making minimum wage and expected to make it up it
> tips, you stiff them on the tip if you is something displeases you about
> the service?
> This is an example of the sort of thing that makes me question the
> tipping culture.


You really don't get it, do you Dave? Servers know their wages depend
on tips. It behooves them to be pleasant. They don't have to become
your new best friend but if the're feeling grouchy they shouldn't take
it out on the customers. No, not even if the customer is being a PITA.
It's in the job description.

Note: The walk-in cooler is a great place to go and let out a scream or
unleash a few curse words when you're feeling particularly irritated.

Jill