"Nancy Young" > wrote in message
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> On 7/6/2015 3:48 PM, DreadfulBitch wrote:
>
>> I believe you've got it backwards from what most people do. If my
>> husband told me he couldn't find his keys I would do what (I think) is
>> the thoughtful thing to do and get off my butt to help him look. I
>> wouldn't dream of giving him some smart ass comment while I continued to
>> sit.
>
> She's just winding everyone up. I didn't ask for help, you're
> rude. Ridiculous.

I am not winding anyone up. People are winding themselves up. So far in
this thread, many things have been made up that I never said. Such as that
I buy frozen lemonade and add sweetener or that I want to drink sweet water.
>
>> I don't think my husband (or most other people) would ever make that
>> kind of statement ("I can't find my keys") and *expect* anyone within
>> ear shot to get up and help. Helping is just the thoughtful thing to
>> do, at least in my world.
>
> At some point, if he keeps looking and having no luck, of course
> you're going to want to help him. Usually that's right away
> unless you're busy yourself. He'd do that same for you.

*My* husband would not help me find my car keys or anything else. I doubt
he would help you find yours either but that's another matter.