On 7/6/2015 3:48 PM, DreadfulBitch wrote:

> I believe you've got it backwards from what most people do. If my
> husband told me he couldn't find his keys I would do what (I think) is
> the thoughtful thing to do and get off my butt to help him look. I
> wouldn't dream of giving him some smart ass comment while I continued to
> sit.

She's just winding everyone up. I didn't ask for help, you're
rude. Ridiculous.

> I don't think my husband (or most other people) would ever make that
> kind of statement ("I can't find my keys") and *expect* anyone within
> ear shot to get up and help. Helping is just the thoughtful thing to
> do, at least in my world.

At some point, if he keeps looking and having no luck, of course
you're going to want to help him. Usually that's right away
unless you're busy yourself. He'd do that same for you.

nancy