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On Wednesday, February 19, 2014 3:47:19 PM UTC-5, Dave Smith wrote:
> On 2014-02-19 1:00 PM, wrote:
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> > And, thank goodness, no one suggests that kids somehow need to go to

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> > a restaurant in order to learn not to run, scream, or throw food when

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> > the kids still "can't" learn to follow those rules at home!

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http://www.bostonglobe.com/lifestyle...f7N/story.html
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> > Two comments so far:

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> > fattony333302/19/14 08:24 AM "I'll add one more suggestion: Tip more

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> > generously than usual! Your kid ate a $7 appetizer, no alcohol, and

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> > was a bigger pain/effort than most customers. You can't just tip

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> > 20%."

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> > DMaximus02/19/14 10:44 AM "You left out the most important thing -

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> > limit the length of the meal. This means that the adults should be

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> > ready to order when they arrive. All restaurants have online menus

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> > and there is no reason to spend time wasting limited attention span

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> > staring at a menu. Similarly, don't linger over a drink and then

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> > order. Do that when you're alone. And NEVER send the waiter ready

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> > to take your order away, saying that you need more time. I'm sure

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> > your kids don't.

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> One problem with the article is that they seem to be suggesting that a
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> restaurant is a training ground for possible unruly kids. Please try to
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> train them at a noisy kid oriented place like the golden arches. I
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> don't want my dinner in a nice restaurant to be overwhelmed by the noise
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> of kids at a nearby table. If a kid has to be taken for a walk to keep
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> it occupied, maybe it is not time to take it to a restaurant.
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> At any rate.... keep in mind that there are "family restaurants". Take
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> you kids to those places and leave the better places for people who are
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> spending extra in order not to have to deal other people's kids. People
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> who hire a baby sitter to watch their kids while they go out for dinner
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> don't do it so they can watch other people's kids acting up.
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> > "Interestingly I was at a restaurant once when the family at the next

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> > table violated every single one of these time-savers. Yep, it ended

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> > in a meltdown."

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> My wife were in a place a couple months ago where there was a family of
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> parents and two late teen - early 20s kids. Dad was a muscle freak who
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> didn't make any moves unless they showed lots of flexing muscles. Mom
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> looked like a stripper. The off spring spent most of their time on their
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> cell phones or texting. None of them knew how to hold a knife and fork.
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> Their elbows were propping their heads up just enough for that short
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> scoop from plate to mouth.


If they were quiet and paid their bill, then you shouldn't let it bother you. Sounds like YOU had your eyes glued on em for quite a spell to take in all that action.