"Janet Wilder" > wrote in message
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> Julie, one of your problems is that you share too much on these boards. It
> might be because you have no other friends to confide in.

I have friends. I even have diabetic friends. But they do not alter their
diets. And they don't use insulin. They don't seem to understand much
about diabetes and don't want to know. So talking about diabetic things
with themn does no good.
>
> Whenever you have posted anything about your husband,It has never come
> across that you two have a loving and supportive relationship. If
> anything the people who read your posts find that your marriage is
> strained and your daughter is undisciplined.

I never did say that we had a loving and supportive relationship. I did not
grow up as a product of a loving and supportive relationship. So? There
are plenty of us like that out here. My daughter is certainly not
undisciplined. Anyone who has taken as much dance as she has could not
possibly be undisciplined.
>
> The fact that you are making such a huge deal over one man's affectionate
> name for his wife is proof that you are insecure in your own relationship.
> Perhaps you need to focus more on your own family and their dynamics than
> on Todd, who, obviously, worships his wife.

Nope. I am not insecure in my own relationship. I do not need to focus
more on my own family. In fact I probably need to focus *less* on it and
more on *me* but circumstances do not allow for that at the moment. And no
I am not going to get into that because once again I would accused of over
sharing.

I am not a religious person and I find that fact that anyone could *worship*
another person to be sickening. We are not all alike. And you are very
judgmental. Perhaps it is because you yourself are religious? Don't know
but I find that often religious people are that way. I was raised to live
and let live. But I was also raised not to refer to people in terms like
"trophy wife". That is just rude, despite what the few of you who post here
think. I did ask my friends what they thought of the term and all agreed
that it was not a nice thing to say.

The people who post here do seem for the most part not to be the norm. I
have learned that over the years. And frankly I just can't relate to a lot
of what is talked about her. That sort of stuff has no place in my life, my
relatives lives or my friend's lives. Apparently we travel in different
circles.