> > wrote in message
> ...

>> I know you mean well, Kate. But Jan alone is responsible for what she
>> said. And it's clear why she is trying to say she didn't.
>>
>> But she did.

This is SO bad a time for news.individual.net to NOT be sending me
messages and you are on the SAME service, Susan.

With all respect, i truly didn't read what you are saying was
intended........ Ask anyone i know......... i call 'em as i see's 'em
and........ i'll often ask folks in RL "do you REALLY want an answer to
THAT question?, think before you ask.........."

i can only speak of what i believe is honest, and with respect for all
parties

kate