On 1/5/2012 5:05 PM, Kalmia wrote:
> On Jan 5, 8:43 am, Nancy Young<replyto@inemail> wrote:

>> I worked with one guy from India who was out of central casting as
>> the scary guy in an alley in a Disney fairy tale. He had a knife scar
>> right down his face and an evil glint in his eye. I'm serious. He was
>> a sadist. He actually inflicted pain me at work, and he later did the
>> same arm-pinching thing to our (female) boss.
>>
>> Not knowing about this arranged marriage business at the time, I
>> marveled that he was married to the most stunningly gorgeous
>> woman around. How did she get stuck with such a creep?
>>
>> She waited until they bought a house and she left him. He couldn't
>> just take all their money and hide it. Nice move, and the other
>> Indian guys were furious about that, as if she shouldn't get half.
>> She had a better paying job than he did. I learned later how much
>> he made her suffer with beatings.
>>
>
> Did she have the brute arrested and charged?

Before I knew what was going on, I was nice to him even though
I just didn't like him or how he looked at me. That's before he
hurt me, of course. He'd ask me what to do, his neighbors in the
apartment complex were calling the cops on him for too much noise.
I never got a straight answer, what are you talking about, do you
play your stereo too loud or something?

Turns out the neighbors were calling because he was beating the
crap out of her. She even lost a baby in a beating. Why he wasn't
arrested, I do not know. I think things would be different these
days. Poor Rosie.

Even at work, he was harassing some of us. He was really disgusting.
Complaints went nowhere until he started requesting personnel reports
on other Indian men who worked for the company. Turns out he was
looking to harass them for dating his now ex. Finally they got rid
of him. I hope he fell into a hole and it closed up after him.

nancy