On Wed, 4 Jan 2012 18:57:55 -0800, "Julie Bove"
> wrote:

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>"Evelyn" > wrote in message
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>> On Wed, 4 Jan 2012 18:42:59 -0800, "Julie Bove"
>> > wrote:
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>>>"Evelyn" > wrote in message
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>>>> On Thu, 5 Jan 2012 12:01:45 +1000, "Ozgirl"
>>>> > wrote:
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>>>>>"Cheri" > wrote in message
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>>>>>>>> "Evelyn" > wrote in message
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>>>>>>>>> "All unhappiness is due to the ego; with it comes all your trouble.
>>>>>>>>> What does it avail you to attribute to the happenings in life the
>>>>>>>>> cause of misery which is really within you? What happiness can you
>>>>>>>>> get
>>>>>>>>> from things extraneous to yourself ? When you get it, how long will
>>>>>>>>> it
>>>>>>>>> last ?" -- Ramana Maharshi
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do
>>>>>>>> anything wise in this world.
>>>>>>>> ~Helen Keller
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> This is all getting beyond a joke, you all need to take a good look
>>>>>>> at yourselves, this kind of behaviour towards a fellow human being is
>>>>>>> shameful. I wouldn't treat a dog in this manner.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> No you wouldn't treat a dog that way, but you and Julie treat Susan
>>>>>> that way every chance you get, and I never see a word from you about
>>>>>> the FOAD that Julie is throwing around all the time. Preacher, take a
>>>>>> good look at yourself before taking others to task.
>>>>>
>>>>>Susan is not a saint and never will be. She makes unprovoked attacks at
>>>>>every opportunity and she gets back what she gives out. You do know the
>>>>>difference between people tit for tatting with Susan and the behaviour
>>>>>of many shown towards Julie.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> NONE of us are saints, neither Susan nor Julie or you or I. There is
>>>> no mistaking the term FOAD. It means **** off and die. Not nice by
>>>> any means!
>>>>
>>>> I hope this nasty stuff gets settled soon!
>>>>
>>>> Peace!
>>>
>>>And it wasn't meant to be nice. I am not a doormat. And I am not here to
>>>be verbally abused over and over again. Seems many people here seem to
>>>think it is okay to do it to me. Ah but when I do it to them? Well!
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>> Julie, we cannot possibly control other people, but if you think to
>> yourself, "what will be the result of telling someone to **** off and
>> die, will it bring peace? Will it escalate the problems? Will it
>> help anyone? Will it help me?"...... I think you will discover that
>> the answer to all of those questions is "no".
>>
>Perhaps as a Buddhist you are here to bring peace. I am not.
>
>Did their attacks help me? No. In fact I *still* don't know which post was
>the post that was supposed to be helpful to me. That is how this all
>started. Robert Miles left me a vague message and pinged me about it. He
>didn't tell me specifically which one it was. And when I said I couldn't
>find a post that was helpful to me, instead of someone pointing out where or
>what this post was, they just started attacking me and telling me I was
>ungrateful!
>
>> We all get on one anothers nerves from time to time. You and I had a
>> few words a while back and I was sorry that it happened and we both
>> made some effort to smooth it all over.
>>
>> That needs to happen in this instance too, sooner or later.
>
>Or I may just leave. Because this has become a very unpleasant place to be.


Julie, for heavens sake, EVERYBODY knew what post it was, it was the
only post that appeared on ASD with the word "GASTROPARESIS" in the
heading. You keep railing on about wanting to know what post was
being pointed out to you. How did you miss it? Go look for it
yourself, nobody is going to repost it for you! I am not, and I
doubt others will either. You need to be proactive about these
things.

Evelyn