On Wed, 4 Jan 2012 18:42:59 -0800, "Julie Bove"
> wrote:

>
>"Evelyn" > wrote in message
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>> On Thu, 5 Jan 2012 12:01:45 +1000, "Ozgirl"
>> > wrote:
>>
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>>>
>>>"Cheri" > wrote in message
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>>>> "Ozgirl" > wrote in message
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>>>>> "Cheri" > wrote in message
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>>>>>> "Evelyn" > wrote in message
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>>>>>>> "All unhappiness is due to the ego; with it comes all your trouble.
>>>>>>> What does it avail you to attribute to the happenings in life the
>>>>>>> cause of misery which is really within you? What happiness can you
>>>>>>> get
>>>>>>> from things extraneous to yourself ? When you get it, how long will
>>>>>>> it
>>>>>>> last ?" -- Ramana Maharshi
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do
>>>>>> anything wise in this world.
>>>>>> ~Helen Keller
>>>>>
>>>>> This is all getting beyond a joke, you all need to take a good look
>>>>> at yourselves, this kind of behaviour towards a fellow human being is
>>>>> shameful. I wouldn't treat a dog in this manner.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> No you wouldn't treat a dog that way, but you and Julie treat Susan
>>>> that way every chance you get, and I never see a word from you about
>>>> the FOAD that Julie is throwing around all the time. Preacher, take a
>>>> good look at yourself before taking others to task.
>>>
>>>Susan is not a saint and never will be. She makes unprovoked attacks at
>>>every opportunity and she gets back what she gives out. You do know the
>>>difference between people tit for tatting with Susan and the behaviour
>>>of many shown towards Julie.
>>
>>
>> NONE of us are saints, neither Susan nor Julie or you or I. There is
>> no mistaking the term FOAD. It means **** off and die. Not nice by
>> any means!
>>
>> I hope this nasty stuff gets settled soon!
>>
>> Peace!
>
>And it wasn't meant to be nice. I am not a doormat. And I am not here to
>be verbally abused over and over again. Seems many people here seem to
>think it is okay to do it to me. Ah but when I do it to them? Well!


Julie, we cannot possibly control other people, but if you think to
yourself, "what will be the result of telling someone to **** off and
die, will it bring peace? Will it escalate the problems? Will it
help anyone? Will it help me?"...... I think you will discover that
the answer to all of those questions is "no".

We all get on one anothers nerves from time to time. You and I had a
few words a while back and I was sorry that it happened and we both
made some effort to smooth it all over.

That needs to happen in this instance too, sooner or later.

Evelyn