On Oct 11, 5:22*pm, "Julie Bove" > wrote:
> Dave Smith wrote:
> > I had a job for about 10 years where I was on the road half the time,
> > and if I was away from the shop my meals were covered by my expense
> > account, so I ate in restaurants. If I was stuck at the shop I at the
> > brown bag special. One thing I had to learn to do was to throw out the
> > sandwich my wife had made. Apparently she resented making sandwiches
> > for me if I was not eating them.
>
> It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making dinner or
> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for dinner. *Of
> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. *But that's never the
> case. *He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. *That leaves me with
> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. *And most
> likely not. *Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he blames
> me for cooking too much food!
>
> As for the sandwiches, I mostly just buy them premade now. *He can just go
> to the fridge, take one and eat it. *Otherwise we get to hear a whole lot of
> screaming while he waits for me to finish whatever it is I am doing to make
> the sandwich. *And then while I am making the sandwich because I can never
> make it fast enough.

Have you considered he just doesn't like you?