On Jul 6, 2:36*am, sf > wrote:

> Old boyfriends don't/can't either. *I'd moved away and visited a few
> years later. *Met up with my old BF, the one I moaned over and thought
> my heart would break because I couldn't be with him... and I realized
> years after that the poor kid was doomed. *He failed because he hadn't
> changed, but if he'd shown me how much he had changed too - I would
> have faulted him for that. *He couldn't win, poor guy. * *I'd moved
> on, but didn't know it at the moment.



See, everybody can be prejudiced at some point. For instance, all
this time I thought you were a guy. I didn't sit around dwelling on
it, I just of assumed. I'm telling you I don't think I care one way
or the other, but when I read something from someone I get an image -
not a physical one so much, but just an image - and the one I had of
you was not female. I'm not saying it was male either. But it didn't
jump out at me that you were a female till your post about the old
boyfriend, who you now say is a poor guy because you have moved on.
That's pretty egotistical of you. I am an egotist too. Well, I'm
selfish anyway, that's close enough.

TJ