On Jul 5, 6:29*pm, "cshenk" > wrote:

> The glory of owning is you can do what you want. *The pain is no one
> fixes it for you no matter what it is. *You build equity but you can be
> hit with a 2-5000$ bill suddenly.



Good luck with Aunti Mabel. Yes, what you say above was just
stressed by me in another post. No matter which way you turn there's
something to pay. Everything has its positives and negatives, and
when things are going ok I'm laughing at the world, content in the
knowledge that I made the right decision, that I had it right all
along - till something goes wrong and I begin to wonder about it. But
with me renting vs owning was never an option anyway as I really can't
even begin to imagine having the cash to own or even rent a house.
It's not a contest or argument. I can see the positives either way.
The only way I would own a house is if someone gave it to me. But
even if I hit the lottery tomorrow I would choose an apartment over a
house. Top floor, not too high, with the windows always open, a fan
blowing air out or in. I think of people who live in really huge
homes, like mansions, and there's something scary about it - like the
place is so huge with so many rooms that you don't know who's in there
with you. You buy a big home, you need a big fence. Then something
to guard the fence. Then something to guard the things guarding the
fence. That is my fear of ownership - lack of responsibility and
openly admitted laziness of which I am oddly proud.

TJ