On Fri, 29 Apr 2011 23:43:28 -0700, "M. JL Esq." >
wrote:

>M. JL Esq. wrote:
>
>>
>> Second thoughts any time after they put your face on the tea towels is
>> considered rather bad form
>> --
>> JL
>
>I mean, come on, she wasn't thrust into it by inevitable circumstance.
>
>They have known each other for almost 10 years and his hair is receding.
> He's balding!
>
>And she still married him.
>
>I don't deny the genuine feelings they have for each other, I only
>question the privilege in which they have it.

In a situation like this one, I suspect you'd have to walk 10 miles in
their shoes to determine and balance privilege against duty and
responsibility. Don't get me wrong, I understand that there are a
lot of nice perks, but never having a life of your own is a heavy
price.
Janet US