"Christine Dabney" > wrote in message
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> On Sat, 5 Jun 2010 13:26:14 -0400, blake murphy
> > wrote:
>
>
>>but i thought genteel southern ladies sweet-talked someone else into doing
>>the fighting for them.
>>
>>your pal,
>>blake
>
> That, or we are so sweet talking and genteel, that even though we are
> fighting, an outsider would never know it. We cloak our words in
> velvet and sugar....
>
> It's like "Bless his/her heart".....
>
> Christine

when I dig it out, remind me to send you a book you will howl
over.......it's called "Bless your heart......Tramp!"
Anything can be said, as long as it ends with 'well, she cain't help it,
Bless her heart'.
-g