On Sat, 21 Mar 2009 09:07:29 -0500, Janet Wilder
> wrote:

>TFM® wrote:
>> would have been 41 today. It's her birthday.
>>
>> She was an absolute angel in my life. I'm so happy to have had the time
>> I did have with her, and I'm so sad that it was cut so short.
>>
>> Aloha nui loa to all of you,
>> TFM®
>
>Birthdays are harder than the anniversary of the death. It's my
>daughter's birthday that effects me the most because I am always
>wondering what she would be doing now if she had lived beyond the age of 21.
>
>I feel your pain.

Yes, I know exactly what you mean! I lost my mother three years ago
(give or take). I can only give you an approximation of her death
date, but March 3rd was hard because it was her birthday.


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I never worry about diets. The only carrots that
interest me are the number of carats in a diamond.

Mae West