On Wed, 24 Sep 2008 20:40:39 -0700, sf wrote:
>
> My DD is getting married next year, I'll mention that situation to
> her. It's a real consideration. In polite company, you don't start
> to eat before the last person is served... so I don't know how it
> would change the situation other than the older people will eat cold
> food.

i thought that was the scoop as well, unless invited to go ahead by those
not yet served.

your pal,
blake