"Melba's Jammin'" > wrote in message
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>
> Don't ask for first dibs on his power tools. Don't ask if she plans to
> stay in their home. Don't ask for a piece of her jewelry. (Don't
> laugh. You wouldn't believe some of the outrageous things people will
> "inquire about" -- wanna be first in line, y'know.)
> --

Great ideas, Barb, as usual. Lotsa folks (include me) don't really know
what to do other than show up at the wake or say 'my condolences'.

So...ummm....when can ya start hittin' on the widow/er?

Jack Fresh