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Seeing all these fights (childish or legitimate) between people inngs makes me realized that my aunt and uncle (my morher's older siblings)
Do not mean to offend anyone but ehre is my story. I was born when
my mother was alomst 40 and my father who was a bit older than my mother and so by the time I was in my 20s, my maternal aunt and uncle whom my mother had cut contacts when I was about 8 were in their 60s. My uncle got married when he was almost 40 and so his oldest son was just a yewar younger then me. My aunt also had children born at old age and so one was my age and two were 2 youngers. So, I didn't see them anymore while 2 older children of my aunt also stopped visiting us in time. That aunt was such a bully thatin the early years after the ties cut, when my oldest brother in his early 20s - who was becoming successful trading precious stones which he started after college, took his oldest son who was older and spoiled, into the trading business, and let that cousin of mine carry some big amount of cash - cash was the medium used back then, my aunt took them all and use it for the wedding for that son of hers who was a Momma's. I grew up hearing a list of things they did to my mom whom I now realized never really understood that thei big sister and brother were nothing but pettey jealous creatures toward her. I do understand that the jealosuy got worse after nationalization when everyone of them went through a tough time but my father fared well due to his .... Anyway, So, on festive days, while my neighbors had their first cousins and aunts and uncles visiting them, I did not see my cousins nor aunt and uncle. My aunts on my father's side were older and their children were older with their own family and they lived far too. Anyway, when I was 21, after a fight with my Mom, I decided to go stay at my uncle's house to make my mother annoyed. I did not expect my uncle to stay a few things he said about my mother, all of them lies. One was that my mother eloped with my father. the other was that he was the one who helped my father financially and made him become the businessman my father was, implying as if my father was nobody before. I couldn't believe the childishness. I had already finsihed college and on my way to US to attend graduate school, how coulod he convince me that my father, who was much older than him - about 10-11 years, and was revered and respected by so many people was nobody was beyound me. But, he wa smy uncle, I was just barely officially and adult and so didn't say anything but I never contacted him after I came to US. My uncle was in his 60s at that time. My aunt who wa solder was as childish as well. She was making some comments about me. the funny thing was that both of them would not hesitant to brag about me to the their giests who knew my family as well as I was good academically and popular. Now fats forward so many years, my much oder sisters are just like them while I am just like my mother who would take crap from anyone aside from being considered the prettiest girl in the family. And I do not see my sisters stopping with their childishness since my oldets sister was trying to portray me in bad light - bad light in a sense to ruin my staus of being known amoung the relatives as "She had it all" - when my oldest nephew and his wife visited me ealry this year. So, you see why I feel great when I realized that it's not just my family (the older ones especilly) who act so chidish Hope you have been entertained by this story Oh, yes, I have no respect for that aunt and uncle just as I have none for my oldest sister; I don't hate her but I am not going to pretend that I like here as a person. It's not a crime, is it? |
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