"Ozgirl" > wrote in message
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> No plans. We are postponing Christmas for a few months so we can have
> something decent rather than half-arsed. I believe some young friends and
> their toddler are coming over Christmas Eve for a BBQ but they are just
> bringing a bit of meat and whatevers for themselves and my boys can get
> what they want. My ex did say his girlfriend will bring a ham and some
> cooked chickens over Christmas Day so probably throw a salad together if
> they stay, which they probably will. We had dessert lined up last year and
> no one ate any as we were too full and the ex and his GF moved on to her
> daughter's house after eating here. I might just get some fruit and we can
> cut it up if necessary.

My mom seems to have an idea that holidays are causing my dad to have brain
bleeds. So we have to minimize what we do. I think it is more a matter of
her not wanting to do much. But I could be wrong.