FYI


"Dave Bugg" dbuggatcharterdotnet wrote in message
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Hello-
This is Dave's wife Jill. I just want you to know that Dave is doing okay
and he is getting help. Thank you for the measures you took today to see
that nothing happened to him. The kids and I appreciate it. I will let
you
know if anything changes.

God bless,
Jill

Hi, all. I just subscribed for a bit to close out some thoughts. First,
My
hearty congrats, Jim, on getting your joint up and running; you'll do
well
and I expect it won't be long before you wished you'd not opened
Pandora's
Box (Big Grin, my friend).

To the rest, thanks for the camaraderie over the last four years. I had
an
email from Monroe the other day, and brought him up to speed about my
doings, to that point, which I thought was going superbly well. Hell,
who
can ever see what tomorrow brings.

Things have changed dramatically since I emailed Monroe back. Although I
had
left my job at Chelan-Douglas Health District voluntarily, it was only
after
enduring weeks of witch hunts and power mongering by a temporary power
shift
after our administrator was fired. I became so stressed and anxiety
driven,
that I actually had to be taken to the emergency room.

Then my wife, Jill, underwent surgery. She is recovering and should be
fine.
She has spent the last 10 days in Minnesota visiting family and will be
back
today.

My 16 year old. Caleb, decided the day that his mom left, that he didn't
like my parenting, told me "I hate the ground you walk on you fat
*******"
and promised to "get rid of me" as he walked out the door. Now his mom
is
beside herself -- which is why she is flying home today instead of
Sunday.
She just felt that she couldn't stay in Minnesota any longer, and needed
to
get Caleb back home.

On the phone, last night, she told me that Caleb won't come home (he had
been calling Jill) until I'm gone. So, I need to leave by tonight. She
mentioned something about "needing time apart and then who knows what
might
happen". This was a punch that has totally devastated me.

There have been too many things that I have had to absorb, and I just am
too
tired and despairing to even try. I thought that, whatever else might
happen, at least I had my family. Now I don't even have that.

I can't think real well, 'cause everything is jumbled; I feel like my
soul
has been shredded. Every day, I get up struggling with physical pain and
dealing with it the best I can.... but this pain is even more severe. I
just
can't see any end, so I am going to end it. I just cannot cope any
longer.

I've cleaned the house for Jill. I am unsubscribing from my newserver in
total at this time. It's time to go.

Dave

Hark! I heard "Michael" say:

FYI

"Dave Bugg" dbuggatcharterdotnet wrote in message
...

Hello-
This is Dave's wife Jill. I just want you to know that Dave is doing okay
and he is getting help. Thank you for the measures you took today to see
that nothing happened to him. The kids and I appreciate it. I will let
you know if anything changes.

God bless,
Jill

Thanks for the heads-up here in RFC, Michael. I'm not an AFB regular
but I did read the thread about Dave and was so sorry to hear that he's
having such a rough time. Thank God folks cared enough to do something
for him!

Dave, if you get to see this, please remember that you're obviously very
liked, and not only here in the cooking groups. Keep your chin up, take
things slowly, and I promise from the bottom of my heart that it WILL
get better. You are not alone!!

Hugs and best wishes - Jani :-)