Edwin Pawlowski wrote:
"T" wrote in message
That's something that doesn't happen with my circle of friends. The only
standing order is that if you don't like something or most things on the
menu then you're welcome to bring a dish of your own.

Otherwise no requirements. Food and wine are provided at the event by us
since we are after all the ones hosting.

Some people just don't understand the concept.

If you can't afford it, don't have it. If I invite someone I want their
company, not their price of admission.

EXACTLY!!


OTOH, we often have informal get-togethers with two to four couples that
are close friends. To spread the workload a bit we'll offer to bring
something, usually a dessert or an appetizer. Sometimes we'll get a phone
call "I bought a big turkey on sale, come on over for dinner" and if my wife
is baking the reply will be "OK, I have a pie in the oven so I'll bring it".

Right. This is totally different from "Come on over, and by the way,
bring dinner".

Serene