Tiger Lily wrote:
so, you smile, say thankyou very much, and when the timing is
right....... i add, you know, i really appreciate the special
desert you made for me, but i think everyone would have
preferred the real thing...... i can have a SMALL piece of
the real thing and i will be delighted to enjoy the meal with
you and friends...... so, just something trying to make
things fairer to everyone at the meal table, and thank you
again for your special treat..... it was very considerate of
you

what do you do (those cherries jubilee in Sweet n' Low lost a
LOT in the translation (gack!))

At least the heart is in the right place even if the knowledge isn't :-) BJ